Cost isn’t just what you pay

The true cost of a dollar, Rand or pound (or whatever you’re earning in) is not just what you earn. It’s what you give up to earn it.

On paper, your salary might seem straightforward. $75,000 a year. £5,000 a month. R250 an hour. But those figures don’t tell the full story. What if the number you think you earn is hiding the real cost of how you earn it?

This is the idea behind a powerful (and often overlooked) financial exercise: calculating your real hourly wage. It’s not just about how much money you make. It’s about how much of your life it takes to make it.

And for many people, the answer is eye-opening.

Because once you subtract all the unpaid hours; commuting, replying to messages after hours, recovering from stress…

Once you account for job-related expenses; transport, work clothes, meals, child care, or the odd splurge that helps you “cope”…

Once you consider the physical and emotional toll; fatigue, irritability, missed family moments…

…your impressive hourly rate may shrink significantly.

It might drop by 20%. Or half. In some cases, it might fall so low that you’re working incredibly hard just to stand still.

This calculation isn’t just about the numbers. It’s about context.

It helps you see how much of your life you’re exchanging, not just for a paycheck, but for every decision that flows from it. And it makes this whole journey deeply personal.

That new gadget? It’s not just $300. It’s six hours of your real working life.

A fancy dinner out? Two and a half.

A pair of shoes you bought on a whim? Maybe ten.

This isn’t about guilt. It’s about being more conscious. When you understand the true cost of your time, you start making decisions that align better with your energy, your priorities, and your wellbeing. You can also begin to understand why some decisions make you feel a certain way.

You might find you spend more intentionally. Say “yes” a little less often. Or even redefine what success looks like; not just in income, but in freedom, peace of mind, or time with your kids.

Because money, thankfully, can be earned again.

But your time? Your energy? That’s finite.

So the next time you consider a purchase, or another hour of overtime, don’t just ask what it is buying you.

Perhaps, that’s what truly matters.